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Sonke siyazi ukuba amaxesha ayatshintsha. Uyakwazi ukulesa ufunde - mhlawumbi umakhulu
wakho akazange. Namhlanje unefriji - umakhulu wakho ngokuqinisekileyo wayengenayo! Kodwa ezinye izinto azitshintshi. lintsana ziyabafuna omama bazo njengokuba zazinjalo kuma-90 eminyaka edlulileyo. lintsana zale minyaka kufuneka zincanciswe ukuze zikhule zomelele, zisempilweni, zikrelekrele zize zikwazi ukujamelena nobomi!





UKUNCANCISA KUSABALULEKILE - NCEDA USANA LWAKHO



UKUNCANCISA
KULUNGELE USANA
LWAKHO
* Ubisi lwebele lunezondlo eziyimfuneko nezilungele usana
* Ubisi lwebele kuphela kokudla okungenazintsholongwane!
Luneseli ezikhusela usana kwizifo, njengomhlaza weentsana.
* Ukuncancisa kunceda umntwana akhawuleze akhule -ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwasengqondweni nangokwemvakalelo.


UKUNCANCISA
KULUNGELE NAWE
*	Ukuncancisa kwakha ubuhlobo phakathi komama nosana.
*	Omama abancancisayo basoloko bezolile bekwazi ukujamelana nobomi


INDAWO
ONOKULUFUMANA
KUZO UNCEDO
NAMACEBISO

Ukuze uncedwe ucetyiswe ngokuncancisa, yiya kwiklinikhi ekufutshane nawe.

EZINYE IZIBAKALA NGOKUNCANCISA

Phantse namphi na umama unokuncancisa. Zisuka nje emva kokuzala kufuneka ancancise.

Phantse namphi na umama unokuvelisa ubisi olwaneleyo, ukuba usana lufuna ibele nanini na kuquka nasebusuku.
Okukhona usana luncanca kokukhona kuveliswa ubisi. Ukuba endaweni yokuncancisa usebenzisa ubisi lweentsana olungumgubo, ubisi lwamabele luza kuncipha.•


Ukuncancisa kufuneka kuqhubeke de usana lube luneminyaka emibini nangaphezulu xa kunokwenzeka.
Ukuncancisa kulungele nawe 

Ukuncancisa kwakha ubuhlobo

Phakathi kwakho nosana. Oomama abancancisayo soloko bezolile bekwazi ukujamelana nocinezeleko lwengqondo lokukhathalela usana.
* Umhlaza wamabele nowesiyilelo-maqanda awufane uhlasele abasetyhini abakhe bancancisa ebomini babo.
*Akufuneki uluhlawulele olu bisi -lolwasimahla!
* Oomama abancancisa iintsana zabo baxhamla uhlobo lwemvelo lokuthintela ukukhawula.


UKUNCANCISA KULUNGELE ILIZWE
* Ukuncancisa kokwemvelo,
kuyindlela ebuya izihlaziye. Kuziswa kusana lwakho kungangcoliswanga okanye kungapakishwanga kokuyinkcitho.
Akukho nto efana nenkcitho xa kuthethwa ngokuncancisa kuba kuveliswa kusisixa esisiso ukwenzela iimfuno zosana.


OOMAMA
ABASEBENZAYO
BANOKUBANCANCISA
NJANI ABANTWANA
Ukuba akunako ukuncancisa usana lwakho emini, unako ukulukhama ubisi ugoduke nalo. Ubisi lwamabele unokugcinwa kwikomityi ecocekileyo, igqunywe ize ibekwe nje kwiqondo lobushushu bendlu, lunokuhlala lungonakali de kudlule iyure ezi-6. Emva kweli xesha lunokufakwa efrijini, luze lusetyenziswe kuma-24 eeyure. Lunokufudunyezwa luze lunikwe usana lwakho ngumntu olukhatha!eleyo kusuku olulandelayo uphangele.
KUTHIWANI
NGOOMAMA ABANE-HIV
KUXHASWA LISEBE LEMPILO 
lnkoliso yeentsana ezincanciswa ngoomama abaneHlV azosulelwa
ngobisi lwamabele. Uphando lwamvanje ludiza ukuba ukuba sesichengeni sokosule!wa kukhulu xa unina osulelwe esancancisa.
Oomama abaneHlV kufuneka balulekwe ngoonompilo malunga neenzuzo zokuncacisa abantwana babo kwanengozi zokosulelwa ngeHlV xa besancancisa. Kufuneka bafune inkcazelo ngeengozi noncedo olunokufumaneka malunga nezinye iindlela zokuncancisa. uligosa lendlela eliqeqeshiweyo, elizinikeleyo nelizimiseleyo
kumsebenzi walo eSoweto - kwaye uyachana ngokwenene. Kubalisa,.. uBONGANI HLATSHWAYO. Kuf

NDAWENI yokuba abukeke  okwegosa lezendlela ubonakala ngathi ngumntu omodelayo. Ufanele ukuba ukhe ulive ilizwi lakhe elimyoli kwiRadio Metro ekunika ingxelo yokuhamba kwezithuthi ngamaxesha kaxakeka ezindleleni. NguAngela Mokasi lowo, odume ngegama likaAngie.
Usebenzela eNancefield eSoweto kwaye uneminyaka emibini esebenza kwisebe lezendlela.
Ndisengumfundi ndandikonwabela ukuwelisa abanye abantwana indlela kufutshane nesikolo sam. Ndawuthanda

loo msebenzi wokuba luncedo ebantwini xa bewela indlela ngokukhuselekileyo, ukhumbule.
Ndaqonda ngoko ukuba ngowona msebenzi ndiza kuwenza lowo, utshilo.
U-Angie uyinzalelwane yaseNaledi kwaye wafunda eSt. Matthews eRockville, eSoweto amabanga akhe aphezulu. Akazange ayicinge nokuyicinga into yokwenza msebenzi wumbi ngaphandle kowolawulo lwezithuthi nokhuseleko ezindleleni.
NgoFebruwari ka-1994,
ekungunyaka olandela owaphumelela ngawo ibanga leshumi, wafumana
ilayisenisi yokuqhuba waza ngojulayi kwangaloo nyaka wafumana umsebenzi asawenza nanamhlanje.
U-Angie uqeqeshwe eJohannesburg Traffic Academy, kodwa uqeqesho alubanga koko ebekulindele.
lzinto azibanga njengendlela ezibonakala ziyiyo xa ungekangeni -uqeqesho belunzima. Bekulindeleke ukuba umntu afunde kakhulu ngexeshana nje elingephi, ukhumbule.
Akubangakho zingxaki zingakanani kuba ibingumsebenzi ebendizimisele ukuwenza. Ndazinikela ndaphumelela kakuhle ekupheleni kwezifundo.
 
Ndafumanisa into yokuba zikhona ezinye iimpawu ezifunekayo	                                           
 mbisana nomsebenzi ololu hlobo.	                            
	Kufuneka uphole, uzinikele kwaye	                                    na ukuze kwaziswe izihlobo zabo. Yaba
	ukwazi ukunyamezelana nabanye	                                    Iolona suku funzima kum olo. KODWA
	abantu, utshilo.	                                                                      ndawenza kakuhle loo msebenzi.
	 Ubomi bukaAngie baguquka oko	                                                            Ukhuthaza ulutsha ukuba
	waqala ukwenza lo msebenzi.	                                                     luwuthabathe umsebenzi wokuba Iigosa
	  ndinabanye abahlobo. Andisayi	                                            lezendlela kodwa elulumkisa kananjalo
	ezindaweni ezithile, njengokuyobukela	                                      ukuba, ayingomsebenzi wokuhlawulisa
	ifilim, utshilo.	                                                                                                abantu ez,ndleleni kuphela, koko
	 Ucelo-mngeni endijongene nalo	                                             ikwangowokuciinisekisa ukuba iindlela
	kukuqhubela phambili nezifundo zam                     	                   zeli zikhuselekie xa uhamba ngesithuthi.
	nanjengoko eyona njongo yam ikukuba	                                           Noumsebenzi wam ke lowo!
	ligosa elikhulu lezendlela. Kungokunje	                             uqwellle uAngie. 


ndixakekile ndiyafunda ukuze ndifezekise umnqweno wam, uqinisekisile.
Nanjengoko 1o ibingumsebenzi owenziwa kakhulu ngamadoda, uAngie maxa wambi uba neengxaki ngabantu abathi abazange bahlawuliswa libhinqa ngaphambili.
Xa ndidibana nengxaki enjalo, ndiye ndicele uncedo kwabo ndisebenza nabo ukuba babonise lowo uchaphazelekayo bengakhange basebenzise bundlobongela, uchazile.
Endisebenza nabo basoloko bendinika inkxaso, hayi kuba ndilinenekazi, kodwa ngenxa yendinakho ukukwenza.
Usebenza iiyure ezisixhenxe ngemini kwaye umsebenzi wakhe ugunyazisa ukuba asoloko eqaphele.
Uyachana ngompu asoloko

ewuphethe.
Likhona necala elinzima emsebenzini kaAngie.
Kwakukho ingozi embi kuRoodepoort Road apho kwenzakala abantu abangama-64. Ndiyakhumbula ukuba kwakufuneka ndiqinisekise ukuba zifika ngethuba iiambulensi eziza kubaleqisa esibhedlele abangxwelerhekileyo..
kwakufuneka ndazi nokuba bangobani. 
110 BONA XHOSA - September 1997

BONA XHOSA September 1997	U-Angela Mokasi onama-22 eminyaka

